Blog Archives

Book Review: What Keeps You Up At Night?

We all have fears!   These fears can be paralyzing and keep us from fully living life and fulfilling the plans God wants us to fulfill. _240_360_Book.1584.cover What Keeps You Up At Night by Pete Wilson is a book for all Christians who want to know how to put fears in to the right perspective.   I found this book well written, and full of very practical advice.  The author states ” I encourage you to think of this book as a field guide to ruthlessly trusting God’s plan – even in the face of difficulty and uncertainty.”  There are 12 chapters to this book and each chapter has a summary of the main points at the end, as well as Reflective Questions for further thought or discussion.  

I found that I benefited from reading this book and would likely recommend or provide copies of this book to friends who struggle with fears, concerns, and anxieties and need to refocus on God.  The author encourages just that, to make the choice to focus not on the problems but on the One who is bigger than the problems and able to help us and provide the resources we need.  He states that ” the object is not to fear less; it’s learning to trust God more.  I found the illustrations from the Bible and modern times to be encouraging and supportive of the author’s perspective.  I found that he offered very practical applications for each Christian to use in having a more God-focused, victorious life in the midst of trials and challenges.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers <> book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 <> : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”



The Warpaint of Malice

Beware when you are met by a fellow human wearing the warpaint of malice!
What Is Malice?  A desire to harm others or to see others suffer

Col 3:8  But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.  15573942_s

1 Peter 2:1 Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind.
Psalm 140:3 They make their tongues as sharp as a serpent’s; the poison of vipers is on their lips.
Acts 8:23 For I see that thou art in the gall of bitterness and in the bond of iniquity.
Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
Hebrews 12:15 See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.
Prov 10:12 Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers all sins.

When we hurt, it is natural to want to be defensive and maybe even to lash out.  I think that one of the basic needs we all have is to feel respected, and to feel that we are fairly dealt with.  We may not have to be the center or attention or the winner of everyone’s admiration, but we don’t want to be the rejected, mistreated victim of another’s bad day. Read the rest of this entry

Media and Our Marriages….Do we recognize the potential problem?

Copyright (c) 123RF Stock Photos

..walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, 2 with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.       Ephesians 4:1-2

The marriage vows….
Our wedding day…. 
On that happy day, we make vows, not just to our spouse, but to our Heavenly Father.  It is supposed to be the beginning of a journey of learning self-less unconditional love.  In those sacred vows, with our marriage founded on Christian love, we have a Helper to bless and nurture our marriage all the days of our wedded life.

What happens when the honey moon phase is over?  We discover what kind of love our marriage is really being built on….selfless Christian love or love of self.  It is easy to think we love someone and not realize that we are actually using that person to fill up the loneliness, emptiness, and restlessness that only God can fill.

If we are not placing God as head of our marriage, then the emptiness, loneliness, and restlessness will return.  It is then that we become vulnerable to the vices and temptations that can destroy our marriage.  In this day and age, the internet, texting, chat boxes, and other social outlets make it very easy to be enticed into being dissatisfied with our marriage partner and looking for other self gratifying ways to plug up the holes inside.  It could be engrossing ourselves in hours of entertainment, internet surfing, etc, or it could be the danger of an emotional or physical affair.

We have to recognize the source of the problem.  I have found myself vulnerable in times that I felt disconnected from my husband, but more importantly from God.  Fortunately, God enlightened me as over the past months I have watched friends get caught in these traps.  When their marriages break on the crashing rocks of infidelity, they very quickly turn to the social outlets to fill up the holes, and dull the hurt and pain.  Instead of turning to God to be their lifeline, they immediately repeat the same vicious cycle.  How can they expect their relationships to turn out any different?  How can they expect God’s blessings on their life or future marriages?    Why can they not see that God can’t fill up their emptiness because they keep beating him to it, and filling up the holes with their own self-gratifying quick fixes.  Why can they not see that it is a relationship of death.

Why is it death? Because a relationship is a living thing.  It is either growing and thriving or it is stagnating and dying.  Only if God is involved can the relationship be truly maturing and growing.  People make the mistake of thinking the relationship is alive because it is currently making them feel good and feeding their ego.  Without God, however, it is certain death.  It may be quick or it may slowly wither and fade over months and years.   We have to put hedges up around our marriages, especially with the temptations so readily available to distract and destroy us via modern technology and social sites.  We have to be diligent about guarding our minds, thoughts, and passions because we all could easily fall into the traps.

My prayer for any reader of this post is that God would richly bless your marriage,  protect and nurture it,  and continue to grow it into a beautiful, living, thriving relationship that teaches you selfless love and dependence on Him.

This site is linked to:

%d bloggers like this: